Power of Attorney Documents Can Alleviate Problems Later
As you begin considering your options for senior living, it is also a good time to review (or create, if you have not already done so) two essential legal
documents that pertain to senior care and end of life care: your power of attorney and your advance directives (also called a living will). In this blog post,
we will explain the difference between these documents and the importance of each.
Power of attorney
Power of attorney is assigned by a “principal” (you) to an “attorney-in-fact,” also known as an “agent,” giving that person legal authority to make decisions
should you become incapacitated, mentally or physically. The attorney-in-fact can be a spouse/partner, adult child, relative, or friend, but most important,
it should be someone you trust to act in good faith at all times on your behalf. While there are general guidelines for the designation of an agent, specific
laws around the creation of a power of attorney do vary from state to state, so always consult with an experienced attorney before you sign a power of
attorney designation document.
When the power of attorney document is created, the principal decides the amount of power that will be granted to the attorney-in-fact (again, the agent). The
agent can be given the power to handle only one particular issue (referred to as a specific power of attorney), or he or she can be given authorization to
take care of nearly all of the principal’s personal and financial affairs (known as a general power of attorney). The most common specific power of attorney
Special power of attorney, which grants the attorney-in-fact control over only one named task (for example, selling a home or running a business).
Durable power of attorney for finances, giving the agent the ability to make financial decisions for the principal.
Durable health care power of attorney (also called a health care proxy or health care surrogate), which allows the attorney-in-fact to make
healthcare-related decisions should the principal become mentally or physically incapacitated. Typically, a physician must determine that you are unable
to make your own medical decisions before a health care power of attorney can go into effect.
The attorney-in-fact is required to keep accurate records of all transactions made on behalf of the principal, and he or she is also responsible for
understanding which specific types of decisions he or she has the power to make (versus what they do not have the authority to decide).
It bears repeating that you should choose an agent who you trust implicitly to make decisions on your behalf. But regardless of the high confidence level of
the chosen agent, you, the principal, should also be sure another trusted individual knows who their chosen attorney-in-fact is and where the power of
attorney documents are located.
Advance directives (also known as a living will)
Advance directives are a written document that helps guide the healthcare choices made by doctors and caregivers if you should become terminally ill,
seriously injured, in a coma, in the final stages of dementia, or near the end of your life.
States have different laws and forms required to create this legal document, and some may require a signature from a witness and/or a notary, but advance
directives should always be in writing. You may seek advice from a lawyer if you prefer, but this is a document you can create yourself. The National Hospice
and Palliative Care Organization website provides a free downloadable advance directives form and instructions specific to your state.
Within the living will document, you may be as general or as specific as you wish, though typically more specificity is helpful to both your physicians and to
your family and care decision-makers. As a starting point, consider where you fall on a scale of 1 to 5 where 1 is, “Let me die peacefully without medical
intervention,” and 5 is, “Never give up on me – try all available medical interventions.”
Programs such as The Conversation Project and Begin the Conversation have helpful tools to help seniors assess their values and discuss their wishes with
family and loved ones. It is also useful to include in your advance directives document your preference on becoming an organ or tissue donor at the end of
Once you finalize your advance directives documents, you should:
Keep the originals in a safe but easily accessible place
Give a copy to your physician
If you live in a continuing care retirement community (CCRC), give a copy to the healthcare team
Give a copy to your attorney-in-fact and/or healthcare attorney-in-fact (see power of attorney section above)
Make note of who has copies of your advance directives should you decide to amend/update them
Discuss with loved ones and other important people (your attorney, for example) your advance directives and your overall healthcare wishes
Consider carrying a card in your wallet indicating that you have advance directives, who your healthcare agent is, and where a copy of your document can
Be prepared for the unknown
Older adults should review their power of attorney and advance directives documents (as well as their last will and testament!) periodically to be sure
they still accurately reflect their wishes. A lawyer should assist if you need to make an update or amendment to your power of attorney. If you need to
change or update anything on the advance directives, complete a whole new document and refer to your list of who has a copy so you may give them an
updated version. By preparing these documents before you need them, you can save your loved ones (and yourself) a lot of potential heartache and stress.
Closer to Home
As you’re planning for your future and considering your move to a CCRC like Friends Homes, we encourage you to prepare fully now and give your family the gift
of a worry-free future with more memorable moments with you.
Enjoy a life you love with friends all around at Friends Homes.
The above article was written by Brad Breeding of myLifeSite and is legally licensed for use.